Read — the first rung

When you love someone who's struggling, understanding comes first.

Maybe the doors have started closing. Maybe the conversations have turned into conflict — or silence. Ladders to Peace helps you understand what may be happening beneath the behavior, and how to approach the relationship with greater intention.

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Ladders to Peace by Chris Martin, foreword by Vishal Morjaria — book cover

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The story behind it

Written from nineteen years beside Jesse

Chris Martin mentored Jesse for nearly two decades — through behavioral struggles, substance use, hopelessness, and hard-won moments of connection. Jesse, whom Chris loved as a son, ultimately died by suicide. This book carries what that journey taught him, so it can serve your family now.

You'll begin to discover

  • What may be happening beneath the surface of difficult behavior
  • How to examine your own responses honestly — without shame
  • Why connection must come before correction
  • How small, steady steps rebuild trust over time
  • What intentional presence looks like in ordinary moments

Who this book is for

  • A parent watching a child struggle and unsure how to reach them
  • A guardian or family member carrying worry you can't put down
  • A mentor who wants to show up more intentionally

What this book cannot promise

No book can guarantee an outcome in someone else's life. This one won't diagnose, treat, or fix — and it isn't a substitute for licensed professional care. What it offers is understanding, honesty, and a steadier way to show up.

The Digital Edition and the Parent & Mentor Pack together

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The Parent & Mentor Pack

Everything in the eBook, plus the Start Here roadmap, Companion Workbook, Warning Signs Checklist, Connection Map, 7-Day Connection Reset, 7 Questions Conversation Starter, and Next Rung Action Plan — every one printable — for $19.95.

Ladders to Peace is an educational mentoring program — not psychotherapy, medical care, addiction treatment, diagnosis, crisis intervention, or emergency response. If someone may be in immediate danger, get help now.